Over the past few years, I’ve been following one question:

What makes me feel alive?
 

That question took me through sexuality, philosophy, eros, psychology, anthropology, storytelling, and poetry. It took me into my own body, my relationships, my desires, my shame, my patterns, my power, and the places where I had learned to perform instead of feel.
 

Exploring sexuality consciously changed how I view myself. It changed how I understand intimacy, pleasure, desire, truth, and aliveness. It also shaped my writing and my book, which became part of that same inquiry: a way of tracing what it means to feel, want, ache, choose, and come back to yourself.

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Since then, I’ve become an ICF accredited coach, Master NLP Practitioner, and facilitator with a background in emotional intelligence, leadership, communication, storytelling, and transformational coaching.

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My work now sits at the intersection of intimacy, identity, erotic intelligence, communication, and embodied self-trust.

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I’m interested in questions like:

• What do I actually want?

• What helps me feel safe enough to want it?

• What do I perform because I think I should?

• What does my body know before my mind has language for it?

• What happens when power, pleasure, shame, curiosity, and truth enter the same room?
   

I’m not edgy for the sake of it. I’m here to curate spaces for honest conversation, respectful exploration, good questions, consent, humour, nuance, and the occasional deliciously awkward truth.
 

I’m especially interested in connecting with people who care about pleasure, conscious relating, intimacy, consent, and self-discovery.
 

This is also the work I feel called to teach, facilitate, and coach: helping people become more fluent in their own desire, more honest in their relationships, and more at home in their bodies.

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If you’re curious about exploring this through one-to-one coaching, couples work, a small group space, or a facilitated workshop, you’re welcome to contact me. I’m interested in creating thoughtful, consent-forward spaces where people can speak more clearly about pleasure, power, pain, permission safety, desire, and what it means to feel truly alive.