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WELCOME

When I realised I was living from a place of performance and not my true self, I landed in a place of darkness.

 

I had lost all sense of direction and  it was terrifying. It was as if my slate had been wiped clean. From the most mundane things like which yogurt I enjoyed to what career I wanted. I felt like a dandelion...blown apart with pieces of me - what I knew about myself -floating just out of reach. I wasn't me anymore. I had no direction and more than that, no map or any idea to navigate where I was.

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I called it the The No-Thingness. Not nothing, but NO-Thing. A place where everything was possible, which meant I was anything and everything at the same time. And not yet ready to make any definitive choice. 

 

The only thing that kept me somewhat tethered to reality was my son. 

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​This is where I do transformational coaching. That experience of the darkness, the place with no map, is also the place where we play. Where creativity, possibility and a new rhythm can be born. 

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Much like the caterpillar, before we can fully form as the butterfly, we must first dissolve what we know of ourselves, our beliefs, our stories and our identities. 

 

Here …don’t push for clarity - we wait for truth.
We dismantle what was borrowed so we can recognize what’s real.


We learn to sit inside the fog, to soften our grip on needing answers,  and to trust that the becoming is already underway - even when we can’t yet name it.

 

In this space, we don’t perform transformation. We live it, feel it, and let it reweave us from the inside out.

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This is not about finding yourself.  This is about remembering the self that was never lost—just buried.

What is
Wayfinder?

Why It Matters

What You’ll Receive

​This is the phase of presence.

 

The world might tell you to "figure it out."
To pick a direction.
To get on with it. 

But you feel hesitation, 

Or resistant!

 

This part matters.

This pause. This breath. This tender in-between.

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Wayfinding is a private coaching experience for those learning to stay with what’s true - without rushing to rebuild.


It’s for the ones who want to move forward with integrity, not urgency.

This part matters because it names what almost no one is willing to say out loud:

 

That real transformation isn’t shiny.
It isn’t a straight line.
And it definitely isn’t a five-step process to clarity.

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This part - the No-Thingness, the fog, the disorientation, the dissolving - is the exact moment most people either abandon themselves, or look for the nearest performance mask to put back on.

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But this space?
This raw, unnaming space?  It’s where the true work happens.

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​I know what it feels like to be in that in-between. Not broken, just… undone, uncertain. Quietly falling apart. And no one tells you that’s allowed! That the chaos and messiness might actually be sacred. That losing your way doesn’t mean you’ve failed—it might just mean you’re finally on your way home.

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  • I needed someone to help me name that. To soften the shame. To sit with me, not fix me. Because you can be in-between and still be whole. You can not know who you are right now… and still be exactly where you're meant to be.

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Wayfinding is the torch in the dark - for anyone secretly fearing they’ve lost their way and are stuck there forever, when in fact, they’ve just started the journey back to themselves.

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It's not a detour.
It’s the door.

In a world that demands clarity, speed, and certainty, I want to give you the gift of time, truth, and tenderness.

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We build this through 

Forest Road

✧Sign Up. ✧Slow Down.
✧Shift.

  • What exactly is The Threshold?
    It’s a voice-led experience designed to guide you through a personal process of reflection, embodiment, and quiet transformation. You’ll receive audio stories, practices, and journaling prompts directly to your WhatsApp over a few days. No logins. No pressure. Just resonance.
  • Is this therapy or coaching?
    No. The Threshold is not therapy, nor a replacement for mental health support. It’s a poetic and somatic invitation—more like a guided journal for your nervous system. CJ does offer coaching, and you are invited to reach out to her for a discovery call to begin a 1on1 coaching journey.
  • What do I need to take part?
    Just your phone, your ears, a little privacy, and a willingness to move with curiosity. A journal or notebook will help if you’d like to write down what comes through—but it’s not required. Of course, your feedback and reflections are always welcome. You can send them via direct message on Whatsapp to CJ whenever you feel called to. You can use +351913611498.
  • Do I have to listen or respond in real-time?
    Not at all. This is a self-paced experience. You’ll receive the voice notes over several days, but you can pause, revisit, or catch up whenever it suits your rhythm.
  • What does it cost?
    There’s no fixed price. This is an experiment in resonance over revenue. If this experience resonates or you feel called to an exchange, you’ll have the option to contribute what feels true — after the journey.
  • How do I join?
    Simply fill in your name, email, and WhatsApp number on the form. You’ll receive your workbook and first welcome message within 24 hours.
  • Can I share the content with a friend?
    Absolutely—invite them to sign up via this page so they receive the full experience directly. The more, the messier, the merrier.
  • What happens at the end?
    You’ll be invited to a final ritual. And, if you choose, you can share your name and address to receive a beautiful handwritten postcard from CJ—a tangible reflection of what you moved through. And a daily reminder that you can frame and put somewhere special.
  • What if I don’t identify with traditional gender roles?
    Perfect. The Threshold is built around human experience—not stereotypes. Each story is told through blended perspectives so you can find yourself, your resistance, and your rhythm in whichever voice resonates.
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